Let’s Talk About Lube

Today’s Group Chat topic: lube.

So you’re gay, hot, and maybe a little sore. Let’s fix that.

Not just any lube. The right kind of lube for the kind of stuff you like to do.

There’s too much shame around asking questions like:

• “What lube should I actually be using for anal?”

• “Is spit ever enough?”

• “Why does it burn when I use certain lubes?”

We got you.

Water-based is great if you’re using toys or condoms. It’s beginner-friendly but might dry out fast.

Silicone-based lasts longer and works well for marathon sessions but isn’t safe with all toys.

Hybrid lubes are a sexy little mix of both.
Spit? Girl, only if you’re desperate. And even then, drink some water first.

Also. Stop using coconut oil if you’re using latex. We’re not starting 2025 with a surprise STI or a broken condom.

Bottom line: If you’re putting things in your body, invest in things that care for your body. You deserve comfort, safety, and pleasure that doesn’t feel like a gamble.

Still unsure? We’re putting together a YES HOMO-approved lube guide soon. Stay tuned.